Love & Numbers
Happy Valentine’s Day!
Alas, this being the week of hearts everywhere that are whooping and swooning about love (or pining for it!), which we all should be celebrating all year long, but maybe do not give the attention that swirls on February 14th. I am not forgetting that many people feel this is an over-commercialized excuse to buy someone flowers, but I am more feeling the true heart and sentimental side of the day, without too much thought to the naysayers right now.
Yes, it is a whirlwind of cards, flowers, and dinners out to give prominence to the date. Which the 1 and 4 in numerology suggest – steadiness of excitement, unexpected, marketing of stuff, and focussing on your 1 and only special one in your life - pretty fitting really that the vibration of this number landed on this date!
To celebrate our love, last night Byron and I went out for supper and realized just how many Valentine’s Days that we spent alone throughout our 48 and 57 years-of-life. The majority of them have been spent alone. That is absolutely and totally fine. Really. We then focused back to the gratitude that we have ourselves now and in the moment. We grinned as we looked around the restaurant at the couples, family, and singles eating and happy in their own experiences of togetherness and aloneness.
This brings me to chirping about our Heart’s Desire or Soul Urge (that inner you and what you most desire or crave, your likes and dislikes and how it influences various actions in your life) How this number works with couples is quite fascinating. I know that both Byron and I share the same Heart’s Desire number which is “2.” Sounds good right? Well, it can be, but - it also pushes two people who deep-down are very sensitive and like to at times avoid confrontation when there really needs to be one. It is a lovely that we have this, but, wow, having both of us having this same Heart’s Desire number in our couple hood – it pushes us to be very aware of each other’s feelings and it has a softness about our relationship come through. We have to use kid-gloves which each other, which at times is easier than others. This has pushed us to be in ultimate kindness to each other.
There are so many combinations of couples that are attracted to each other and with the intertwining of numbers there can be areas that couples can see come through in their relationship.
I keep preaching we are more than just a number, but they certainly have an influence on your experiences from all that I can see in myself and others.
